Sports

Many of us have seen some pretty interesting behaviors demonstrated on a playing field of one type or another. We have witnessed qualities that we greatly admire and also those that we find repulsive. Does the participation in sports affect ones' ethics? Is it a force for good or for ill?

The answer to that question has more to do with the individual him or herself than with the activity they are engaged in. Just as we find any number of personalities in our work environments, in our social groups and even in our families; the same is true of sport teams. Those who are inherently fair-minded, level-headed and in control of their emotions will typically exhibit those same qualities whether on or off of a playing field. The same can be said of those who lack essential qualities and who are hot-headed and uncontrollable; and we often witness the fruits of their behaviors in a competition. It is not a pretty sight and often leaves a bad taste in the mouths of the observers.

While it is heart warming to hear stories of athletes who go out of their way to include less able teammates, it is stomach turning to hear of or to see incidents where athletes are unnecessarily cruel or demeaning to one another. Recent incidents in the sports world have demonstrated the later very vividly. Wide coverage was shown of a womens' soccer team player who viciously yanked her opponent to the ground by her hair.

This young woman provided a good example of what not to do on the playing field.

There is so much that is good and worthwhile about sports, so many ways that it can give opportunities to excel and to demonstrate qualities and skills that will enhance life. It also provides a platform for those who would bring shame and scorn by their actions. Many parents must wonder as they witness gross behavior at sporting events if they want their young children to be involved in such activities. Again, it comes back to the individual. A parent must instruct their children as to proper behavior and use those who demonstrate otherwise as examples of what not to do. As abhorrent as the actions of some may be, they can serve as effective teaching examples stressing the negative consequences of such behavior.

It is a shame that there are those who would detract from the incredible experience that sports can and should be. There is undoubtedly a balance in sports as there is in almost everything else. Concentrating on the good and positive and teaching the merits of such can bring about wonderful experiences for everyone involved.

Nancy Smith is one of the owners of RobbinsSports.com, an online retailer specializing in basketball backboards and punching dummies.

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